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Loving – the guys’ way

In In my mind on November 30, 2011 at 2:04 pm

Even if guys have feelings and emotions, they have that wonderful ability to still think logically and separate emotions from practical living with amazing calm.

They might have a storm raging inside them but you’d hardly see it if they choose to hide it from you. Unless, the bond you share with them is strong to decipher them right from a look.

They might not go crazy and hazy like us, screaming and hopping when we fall in love (ok not all girls do that but still we go ecstatic) but they might be those who are intensely loving someone- may be more than us.

I completely admire that special trait of you guys. How you manage to keep your composure in front of her, how you keep your calm and act so cool even if there’s an urge to tell what you feel. I think it’s the harder way to love, yet you do it so well.

And that’s actually how you identify true love in guys. The one they feel silently, the one they first take time to assimilate for themselves, the one that invades them but over which they have full control.

Then the day they step forward to spell it out, it comes like a wind of fresh air that surprises you on a very warm day. There’s no way to run from it or hide from it. The intentions are so pure and heartfelt that you are bound to melt.

Loving the guys’ way is intensely beautiful: a mixture of passion, patience, tenderness and calm. It’s that one state of mind that makes a man/guy the best person he could be as he’s discovered what real love can be…

What’s nice about guys

In General thoughts on September 19, 2011 at 4:01 pm

If you still think that guys are only rough and tough then maybe you should review that idea of yours ( hmmm except maybe for Chuck Norris).

Even if girls are more prone to being emotional, guys have their own special way to show their soft side ( at least those who dare to do so).

I might not be able to talk on behalf of all girls, but believe me guys, it’s always so charming to see that side of yours. It’s actually quite reassuring to see that you do have feelings and if you do, it means you can be understanding towards us.

It’s always so cute to see them crack jokes and then look at you laughing at it with a little hint of admiration in their eyes. Or when they would purposely show you things that would make you go “Aaaw” and then stealthily  (or so they think 😛 ) look at that lovely  smile they’ve brought on your face.

Not to mention their subtle way of pretending to listen to you when they are actually lost in the thought of how lucky they are that you are spending some time with them. Or when they have indeed listened to you, remembered those little things you said you like and later on surprise you with that.

There are also those who would notice you looking at them and nod, smile and wink at you. Besides, they also love this blush on your face when they have told you something nice or when you are actually smiling at their funny lines.

Guys are also very protective, no matter how much they deny it at times. And no matter how much independent a girl is, being shown some of this protective side, reassures her. After all, the first man in a girl’s life is her dad and when a guy starts being protective towards her, he tends to take that fatherly image. She feels safe and trustful towards him.

Finally, guys are also emotional, each in their own way and degree. When they feel like opening up to you, know that they are actually daring to show you what they consider as their weakest side. It’s then up to you girls to comfort them, take care of not breaking their trust and give reassurance that you still see in them the man they are.

Honestly then, the best thing about guys (and this is a personal opinion) is how they make you feel girlish, protected, respected, womanly and above all special. It doesn’t matter what relationship they entertain with you, true and genuine guys always make the women of their life feel special and loved.

Master of Time

In General thoughts on October 27, 2008 at 7:58 am

Can't turn back time by shimoda7

Since we’ve started with this “summer time” thing in Mauritius yesterday, it made me ponder on how we , humans, have been manipulating time. As a child I used to think how come we know our time is right? Who decides which clock is on time and which isn’t? Because we might all have some difference of 1-3 minutes on our watch and we still argue that our time is the right one. I remember my parents used to rely on the radio to know what’s the “exact” time.

Today when we’ve switched to the summer time, it comes again – what is the real time then? Some unreal thought maybe – no explicit answer only a vague emptiness… Because ,after all, time is abstract, almost unreal! WE invented time, to give a sense to our days, to schedule our lives but time as such isn’t like seconds or minutes… It’s just something that flows and ages us in the process.

When we are trying today to manipulate time for “energy savings”, it’s like we are trying to master time. But we are actually re-organising the “representation” of time because what we see on our clocks or watches is in fact some “representation” of time isn’t it? Some fantasy becoming true we might say, yet it’s a sign of man trying to adapt his environment, or his time spectrum rather, to his living habits!

However, no matter how much man tries, he’ll only be a puppet of time and never master of time…